Friday, 21 December 2012


Why do we find it so hard to let go? Why do we have such difficulty accepting the inevitable, dealing with what's right in front of us? Why can't we get over something we can do nothing to change? I guess we all just hope too much, hope for the best, hope that she's/he's still holding on when the truth is they long gone. If there's one thing I could take away from my previous relationships it would be to search for a beautiful heart, not necessarily a beautiful face. Beautiful people are not always good, but good people are always beautiful. There is nothing more beautiful than an intelligent, hard-working, independent, respectful. It's hard to say you deserve better when you, are in control of what you deserve. You’re the prettiest and handsome-est when you’re happy. 

Stop thinking you need people - get it out of your head. Just live your life, beautifully. Make yourself happy because you're never promised that you'll find someone who can do that for you. And even if you do find that person - you could lose them. Stop depending on anyone else in your life to determine your happiness and start looking in the mirror at the most important one. Just be patient, & in time you'll come across someone that feels right - & without even knowing it you will have picked someone who compliments you, rather than trying to find someone who completes you. Sometimes looking back on what you had, motivates you to keep moving forward... there's a reason why you left, keep going. 

Never sacrifice anything, your family, your heart, or dignity. Remember when you were little? Your parents had talked you into the fact that you were a princess or prince & deserved nothing but the best - yhet wasn't just telling you that to make you feel special at the time. They wanted you to hold onto that bit of information for the rest of your life, & now is the time to start remembering. 

Life is too short to spend with people who suck the happiness out of you. The reason why people give up so fast is because they tend to look at how far they still have to go, instead of how far they have gotten. Don't lose who you are in the blur of the stars. Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing. It's okay not to be okay... Sometimes it's hard to follow your heart. Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising, just be true to who you are. You’ll never get the answers you’re looking for, but maybe in the end she/he not worth them. 

Don't stress what you can't control. Mistakes are proof that you are trying. When your to young to fall in love.... let it go. We tend to be unhappy when we are blocking ourselves from moving forward. You set yourself up for disaster by making a person who isn’t good enough for you, good enough for you. Those who strive to make others happy always find it themselves. What you deserve, is much, much greater than what you have. Your emotions are getting all mixed up and you're not sure how you should feel. Listen to your heart? Yeah, that'd be alright if you knew half of what your heart was thinking in the first place. 

I guess all you really can do is either let go or keep holding on, but whichever you do, always smile and be strong.I might not be where I want to be, but thank God I'm not where I used to be. I'm ok, and I'm on my way!